January 19th, 2012 by Minette
Does your Dog Stare at what He wants?
The other day I found myself, staring blankly around my kitchen. I guess I am getting old, because as with numerous other times I had forgotten what I was doing!
As I glanced around trying to get my bearings, my pupils caught the pupils of my oldest dog. He is 12 and my very, very best friend, dare I say my furry soul mate? He commonly follows me from room to room and I rarely am capable of completing any task without his help, or so he thinks (and I am afraid I agree)!
As my gaze matched his, I watched him very consciously look very lovingly from me…to the top of our refrigerator.
I giggled a little and acted totally brainless. As I waited, to see what he would do, he very calmly caught my eyes and even more slowly turned his head to stare at the top of my refrigerator, languishing there for a moment or two before again glancing back to my face.
I must admit I found him completely endearing and totally hilarious. You see, I keep my dog treats on top of the fridge. This was his way of calmly, quietly asking for a treat, AND it must work!
I quietly asked him “What do you want” and again he slowly pivoted his head toward his awaiting treats. By now, since I had engaged him in conversation, he was drooling in apprehension.
This got me to thinking… As skilled as he was at getting me to deliver a treat (and yes, I admit I did give him one because his request was so quiet, calm and intelligent) I wonder what else he has trained me to do for him!
You see, I think we are the inferior species when it comes to dog training! I believe they are much, much better trainers than we are! They are more patient, more insistent and less distracted than most of us! Most of all dogs are incredibly consistent! Could you scream in a crate for 2 hours straight?
Dogs learn very quickly what behaviors we like and what behaviors we don’t and what behaviors get them the most interaction. What behaviors reward them and what behaviors don’t. Make no mistake about it; sometimes those are not related. In fact sometimes dogs choose naughty behavior simply to get some kind of interaction from us because inadvertently we reward them when we don’t mean to!
AND, sometimes naughty, bad, deplorable behaviors are reinforcing!
Whenever I have a behavior problem or a struggle in my dog training, I ask myself “What is my dog getting out of this?”
This is the root to good dog training and understanding dog behavior.
When there is a problem, whether it be a human or dog related problem the person or dog is getting something out of the behavior.
In order to find a solution we must determine what the “payoff” is and if we are looking to change a behavior we must deny the subject the payoff they are use to or that they desire!
Does your Dog Steal?
For instance, I often hear of people who complain that their dogs steal objects, show their owners, and then dash off around the house for a fun game of “cat and mouse”.
The bad behavior: Stealing
The payoff: The “chase” game, where the owners scream profanities, throw objects, cry and run around chasing the dog, is in fact the dog’s favorite game! What could be more fun for your dog than a game that you will probably NEVER win (because you simply aren’t quick or agile enough to catch him)? AND, it is completely interactive! This is why your dog steals and often shows you the stolen article before darting off.
So, in order to change the bad behavior: Stealing…you must prevent the behavior or change or cease the pay off. More on this problem in this article “Teaching your Thief to Retrieve”
It doesn’t matter what the bad behavior is: stealing food, barking, jumping on people, having accidents on the floor, aggression; there is a payoff for your dog.
As the more intellectual animal you need to figure it out and decide how to change the behavior.
My ability to do so has often been the precursor to people saying I am part dog. In order to conquer dog behavior, you must put yourself in his paws and “Think like a Dog”
My challenge to you is to observe your world, watch what you are doing with and for your dog and ask yourself who is the better trainer in your home; you or your dog?
Do You End up Chasing Your Dog?
What do You do About it?
The first step to true change is to acknowledge the problem.
Once you realize how YOU have been trained you can begin the re-training or the reorganization of your relationship with your dog.
Are you “Rewarding the Wrong Behavior”?
My dog, would personally like me to be a human PEZ dispenser! Like all “animals” he would like to get everything in his life and in his world for free or at the very slightest with the least expelled energy as possible.
I don’t mean to dash everyone’s feelings about dogs, but they don’t care about pleasing you, unless of course in some way it pleases them.
We are all out for ourselves in the end. The point is to make sure that what pleases you is what positively affects your dog! Simple as that!
Will my senior dog continue to seek my gaze in the hopes of staring at the things he wants in life? ABSOULTELY! Especially since I rewarded him with what he desired the last time he did it, but in the scheme of things I didn’t feel this was a negative behavior.
However, I know that many of you are suffering from some nasty behavior problems and because of that I admonish you, step back and look at the big picture. Take notes if you have to and make a list of the possible payoffs for your dog and only then can you begin to change that behavior!
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